Getting Over Tom
Getting Over Tom by Abigail Thomas ’59. If you have read anything I have written about Abigail Thomas, you know that I am a fan. I want to read everything she has written. This book of short stories, the first volume she published, probes the subtleties and complexities of being part of families that, in their own ways, are unhappy. The various females voices, telling their stories, are frank and observant; their naivete makes them vulnerable. Being about the same age as Abigail, I recognize the culture of teens and young adults in the late fifties and early sixties where much of what we cared about was shrouded in silence or alluded to only in hushed whispers. These girls are on their own to figure out how to get on with the business of life.
Touches of magical realism, which sometimes veer toward the grotesque and sometimes toward whimsy, enliven the…




